June 17th: Father’s Day, and Neil’s Birthday

This June 17th is not only Father’s day, it is also Neil’s birthday.  Neil, my late-husband, would have been 35 this year.

This video shows Alexis and I introducing the song Walk Away, by Ben Harper, and we explain the reason why this song is significant to us.

For all the adopted men in our lives who have been a father to the fatherless, THANK YOU!  For every man who has read my daughter a bedtime story, grabbed ice for her split lip, carried her bike after she fell off it (us being blocks from home,) loved her, spent time with her, and supported me, HAPPY FATHER’S DAY!

For Neil, who spent two years and nine months loving our child, anticipating her, and adoring her, we love you and we remember you.

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4 Responses to June 17th: Father’s Day, and Neil’s Birthday

  1. Steve Tulloch says:

    Love you two, and enjoyed the read and the song. I also value the reminder of dear Neil!

    • admin says:

      Thanks for listening Steve, and thank you for being one of the great men who has been a father of many sorts to both Alexis, and I. Happy Father’s Day!

  2. Fanis says:

    Shawna this is really beautiful/moving. Thanks for sharing, thinking of you two.

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