Tag Archives: only parent

Happy thought #43: Panty parties (it’s not what you think…or maybe it is…)

As an only-parent, I’ll take advantage of just about any opportunity to have fun, and make life easier.  When my three-year-old daughter declared one day that she was done with pull-ups, I decided that was cause for celebration.  Life was … Continue reading

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Do I feel marginalized?

Being a widow, and a single mom, one might wonder, do I feel marginalized?  The truth is, I don’t often think of myself that way.  I was who I was before these titles joined my life, and I am who … Continue reading

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WRESTLING MY WAY THROUGH DEFEAT. Literally.

I was the first girl to ever wrestle in my high school.  My claim to fame ends there. I wrestled for one full year.  Then I quit.  Wrestling was not like any other sport I had ever played.  The wins … Continue reading

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NEW LABELS: Widow, Single Parent (a.k.a. “We are more alike, my friends, than we are unalike.” Maya Angelou)

  When a spouse dies and you have children two things happen at once. You become a widow(er), and a single parent. Simultaneously. Overnight I adopted new labels. One moment I was married. The next I was not only widowed, … Continue reading

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